The Power of Shame

Let’s talk about shame. I once heard someone say, “Shame is a powerful motivator.” It is.Shame causes us to hide. An abusive partner will use shame to their advantage, causing their emotionally battered counter part to keep secrets out of fear. Shame causes fear of rejection, fear of unbelief, self doubt, & loss of self …

“I’ve got you”

Open spousal communication starts with knowing your spouse has your back - the default should be that spouses have each other's best interests at heart and will give each other the benefit of the doubt. If that's not happening in your marriage, it's time for a serious conversation and maybe some help. You should not …